For richer and for poorer

I have been married 3 times,can you believe that? I don’t, but I have to. The best thing out of all three are my two kids, from the first wife.

The first two we did the invitations, ceremony, a DJ for the wedding reception, catered food. Not a single person was asked to buy their own meal.

Now my 3rd marriage, no ceremony, just went to the courthouse with family and best man and she had her family and a maid of honor. But then too, the whole thing lasted from March 23 to Aug 19th or so. Of the same year.

Now here is my question, this also has some relation to my studies with the University of Phoenix

For richer and for poorer;

*Before the wedding itself, the couple needs to decide on a date. Very true, whether or not they were to elope or have any form of ceremony.

*Location, location, location. Right? So you decide on where, it’s available on your day, you find a person to marry you, a preacher, ordained or from a church or a judge.

*Once a date has been decided on, the couple then needs to make a wedding party list, bridesmaid, groomsmen and ushers if  needed.

*Then the fun part, the actual invitations for who you want to invite to your wonderful day.


Now I have a question, the only invitations that went out, were sent on Facebook. There were none given to anyone, no physical wedding invitations went out to immediate family, none to the wedding party.

On top of that, you had to pay $16.95 for your dinner after the either the wedding or just the reception, I am not sure, but does it matter?

Then the bride to be also announced on Facebook something like; “that if you wanted to send a card (with a million bucks) hahaha, just kidding. ” I heard about that and just about, well forget that.

So tell me what you think about these wedding plans, especially the last part.